Just do your best

[emily]

I've been trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant for more than 5 years now. Most recently I had pcos, and before that two cycles of ivf and several tries with fertility drugs earlier than that. so far nothing has worked. there has always been the thought what if none of these things work, but i could not think about it. but i think now i need to. at least i feel that i did all i could. i'd feel much worse if I had not tried so hard. yes it hurts that i did try hard and got nothing. but at least i know i did my best. thats all you can do. its hard to not take this personally but I know i can not.

[Kaimi1993]

A negative is SO hard on everyone, rather it's a 1st negative or your 8th, it still hurts deeply and I wish no one had to go through it. It's the emotional part that comes with it and NOT about the $$$.