Wanting to be more aggressive

[harris17]

My husband has a low sperm count and motility. We don't know if that is the only reason of our infertility since I haven't had any tests for me. we have tried a few autoimmune procedures, both iui.
the doctor I have now only offers ivf and with only a few eggs. theres another clinic here that does zift and uses more eggs. any advice?

I imagine this a late reply for you, but i think you should do what you can to pursue your dreams. The interesting thing about these issues for a man (which is the only point of view I can offer, is that the urge to have a family is just as strong, but not as personal as it seems to be with a woman.

[Shaney]

Sorry for being nosy, Harris, but if you haven't had any tests, and don't know why you might be having trouble conceiving, why did you pursue the IUI or other procedures?