We have three beautiful kids, but what I woldn't give for one more, and if it was a girl too. Three boys are great and there's never a dull moment. The clan is 12, 8, and 6 and if we could harness they're energy we wouldn'[t have to worry about lights.

but I guess I now realize I have always secretly wanted a daughter. Only now do I see this, and now that I feel time pressing, we are thinking about going for some help. I have been doing some reading, getting up to speed on ivf which is what we're considering, and I also see there is some chance we can select a gender, or at least increase our chances. Appreciate anyone's thoughts.
Thank you.